Wouldn’t it be nice if we could call-up our focus like we ring our smartphone when it’s gone missing?
Distractions are nothing new. In fact, many take pride in their ability to multi-task.
But with the proliferation of electronic devices running our lives, our ability to focus has taken a nosedive.
Here's the thing though...
Your focus is always there. It comes down to practicing how to find your focus when you need it most.
With the business environment moving at lightspeed the onslaught of new business strategies available to try is mind-boggling. So is it any wonder our ability to focus is being challenged?
Everyday I'm uncovering more and more things that grab my attention, and like many, my curiosity gets the best of me.
It’s hard to ignore.
I want to do everything I can to raise my game. I want to stay on the cutting edge of what’s working. I want to accelerate my business. I want the big payday.
But in chasing so many things my focus had gone missing. So enough of chasing the bright shiny objects. Enough of feeling the fear of missing out on something.
I took control, and now my focus is now stronger than ever. Here are 4 things I learned and now practice to help me regain my focus when feeling distracted.
Distractions are an inevitable part of modern life. Some are unavoidable and unmanageable; think of the landscape crew cutting and edging right outside your office space. Not much you can do other than your best to block it out of your mind.
Other distractions are fully manageable; think of your decision to check your smartphone every time it makes a sound, and even times when it’s not sounding off at all. Why are you sabotaging your own productivity?
Distractions ruin our flow when we’re trying to accomplish important tasks, and the result is things taking longer to complete.
Thinking: The Enemy Of Focus
We’ve all caught our minds wandering when we’re trying to focus on an important task. Sometimes it’s an innocent departure onto something trivial.
Other times though, it might be something that happened previously you can’t stop thinking about. A difficult conversation with a coworker or customer, or a family related issue that keeps replaying in your head.
Thinking is obviously a necessary part of being human, but it sabotages our ability to focus. The result is forcing ourselves to try to focus. Yet by adding force we also add pressure.
If we are distracted and falling behind on projects because of it, and our thinking is getting in the way of focusing on what’s most important, pressure begins to build. Pressure just adds to the head trash your distracted, over-thinking brain congers up.
Using public speaking as an example, most if not all of us admit to being anxious when it comes to public speaking. If we allow the head trash to take control we might experience our worst nightmare while on stage.
Focus is the antidote to the head trash created by a distracted, over-thinking, and pressure-filled mind. Why? Because focus doesn’t know pressure, only the thinking mind does. So when we experience true focus, the pressure disappears.
Action Without Limitations
How would you like to go into any situation knowing your focus is always there?
Well, it is there. It always has been.
Focus is like the clear sky, it’s limitless and always there.
Thoughts are like clouds; they flow through freely, and can sometimes block our view, our focus. Distractions, over-thinking and pressure are the storm clouds that can disrupt our ability to take solid, focused action.
Another concept to consider is flow. You know the feeling when something you’re working on is moving along. You’ve achieved a flow; maybe you get in ‘the zone’. You’re focus is 100% on the task at hand.
Creating routines are a wonderful way to achieve flow. High performing athletes often have a routine they perform before, and even sometimes during competition. But, before a routine works for them in competition, they will have devoted hours to preparation by ignoring distractions, not allowing themselves to think ahead to the competition, or putting undo pressure on themselves.
Professional golfer Jason Day closes his eyes before every shot as he re-focuses and visualizes just that shot. Olympic swimmer Michael Phelps had a specific routine he performed before every event. It started when he arrived at the swim venue two hours prior to an event, and followed the same routine each time. Clearly, it seemed to worked for him!
It’s not enough to know about the concept of focus. You need to experience focus first hand to fully appreciate the feeling focus can give you. Only then will focus allow you to take action without thinking.
Do you have to focus to brush your teeth? Probably not. It’s become routine through experience. Same goes with tying your shoes. You learned shoe tying as a kid and have practiced it thousands of times. No focus required.
Do you need to focus to drive your car? You betcha! But it too can become a comfortable routine. We become over-confident, and now more than ever, have allowed potential distractions (smartphones again!) to interfere with the task at hand. No matter how good of a driver you think you are, losing focus while driving 60 MPH can kill you or someone else. There are some things just not worth the risk.
Tips to help you practice on your focus:
Focus isn’t a thing that gets lost and needs to be found. It’s with you all the time if you are willing to practice at accessing focus when it’s most needed.
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